obey the informal rules of engagement in America when dealing with blacks: abide their shortcomings with a sumptuously magnanimous spirit.
Source: Chateau Heartiste
And as Shelby Steele revealed years ago in The Content of Our Character, this is the race game that Blacks and Whites play. Whites grant to Blacks a consistent “license and deference” in order to be granted “racial innocence” in return. As bad a deal as the Iran uranium deal.
Having non-White connections really opens your eyes to seeing how Whites are really the only people who care about not being “racist.”